How was your turkey day?
Did you stay home?
Have family in or just your immediate family?
Did you do the cooking?
The cleaning up? (Yes. to probably both I will guess.)
What was on your Thanksgiving menu?
Just the tradtional like turkey, sweet potatoes (marshmallowed or not-marshmallowed?), cranberry sauce, stuffing, green been casserole?
Or is your family a little more daring, adventurous with the meal? Maybe ham? Tacos? Forgo the sweet potatoes all together? (Hark!)
What about that side dish we seem to all share though no one “prepared” it?
The alcoholic outrage/outburst/tirade.
I don’t know why the holidays are ripe for the worse of an alcoholic’s behavior to erupt but they are. (I’m sure if I googled it, I’d find some definitive reason why the alcoholic’s abominable behavior is intensified during the holidays.) I guess I’m past caring about the why anyway. I just know it’s happening. It starts with Thanksgiving (or maybe even Halloween depending on the year) and goes right through to the new year. Like over-eating, over-spending and new year’s resolutions – it’s pretty much the same every year.
Yesterday my to-be-ex didn’t disappoint though he came up with a new line, a very telling line, a line where I thought he had no more mean, harsh, ugly, vile lines to offer. I told him to stop yelling and he said, (drum roll please),
I’m only yelling at you.”
Yeah, I know.
“I count. I! Count!”
In case no one has said it to you, really said it to you,
Happy Thanksgiving – as in “thank you.”
Happy Thanksgiving – as in “I love you.”
Happy Thanksgiving – “you are amazing.”
Happy Thanksgiving – thank you for reading and supporting me in this little blog-venture of mine.
Happy Thanksgiving – I love you in that I mean I don’t know you but I send love to you as a fellow human being and survivor of another person’s compulsive drinking.
And Happy Thanksgiving – you are amazing. We didn’t choose the best travel partners for this ultimate travel adventure called Life and yet, we all are keeping our heads up and looking forward.
Enjoy your holiday week-end.
And if you’re shopping, buy yourself a little something.
It doesn’t have to be big or expensive. Maybe just a candle or an inexpensive little piece of jewelry but something to remind you that you count.
You do indeed…