I feel like I hate everything about my husband.

Everything he does.

Everything he doesn’t do.

He used to accuse me of not being happy or satisfied with anything he did.

I fear I am at that place now.

Is it justified?

I don’t know.

That’s the problem with the alcoholic marriage.

What is “right” or “ok” or even normal and what is the product of living with an alcoholic?

Of course happily married couples get annoyed with each other but they have the happily part to balance things out. What happens when you don’t have that? What happens when it’s just all the annoying and none of the happily?